what exactly makes you.. YOU?

what is it about you and me that makes us who we are. Our choices? Our experiences? or is it our thinking pattern that makes us who we are today.

Every person that is born comes out as an individual with no knowledge, no ideas or opinions. Or even thinking patters. However we do come with DNA and that might have an impact on what you are but no WHO you are.

That WHO is built over years with nourishing, experiences and the reality of the world. The way you were taught to teach others makes you who you are, The time someone betrayed you and you understood its not worth it is who you are. Tiny experiences of life have taught you so much today, so much that today you know when and why things are dicey. The lesson you take from each of these experiences makes you, YOU.

Your choices and opinion, Your stance on the world brings out the reality hidden inside of you. No one in this world has the power to change you unless you wish to do so. The process of making you is in your hands, how you will to perceive things around you and develop from them. The influence around you also adds to this process because being a human isn't easy. the possibility of getting influenced is very high and loosing your focus even more. So make smart choices in terms of the influence around you, the choices you makes and the lessons you pick from the experiences.